Cindy Weathers, LMFT, CGP
An open book

Journal

Notes from the practice.

Short essays on perinatal mental health, fertility, loss, birth, midlife, relationships, and the rest of the work — written for the people going through it, not for other clinicians.

Postpartum

How do I know if I have postpartum depression?

A clinical guide to recognizing postpartum depression (PPD): symptoms, when it starts, how it differs from the baby blues, and when to seek help.

May 15, 2026 · 8 min read

Postpartum

Is this postpartum anxiety, or just new parenthood?

How to tell the difference between the normal hypervigilance of a new baby and a postpartum anxiety disorder that deserves real support.

May 14, 2026 · 6 min read

Menopause

Perimenopause anxiety vs. regular anxiety: how to tell the difference

Why perimenopause causes new anxiety in women who never had it before, how it differs from ordinary anxiety, and what actually helps.

May 12, 2026 · 7 min read

Fertility

The emotional weight of IVF (and why it deserves its own therapy)

IVF asks your body, marriage, finances, and identity to carry something enormous. Here's what specialized fertility therapy does that generalist support can't.

May 10, 2026 · 7 min read

Fertility

The two-week wait: what it's really like, and how to survive it

The emotional experience of the two-week wait between IVF transfer and beta test, and what actually helps you get through it.

May 8, 2026 · 6 min read

Pregnancy Loss

The miscarriage grief no one talks about

Why early loss is so under-witnessed, and what real support after a miscarriage looks like.

May 7, 2026 · 5 min read

Fertility

What it feels like to start IVF again after a failed cycle

The emotional reality of returning to IVF after a failed cycle, and what helps. Written for women in the middle of fertility treatment.

May 5, 2026 · 7 min read

Menopause

Perimenopause and mental health: what no one is telling you

The mood, anxiety, and identity shifts of perimenopause are clinical realities, not 'just stress.' Here's what's actually happening, and what helps.

May 4, 2026 · 7 min read

Couples

When should couples therapy actually start?

Most couples wait too long. Here's when to actually start, what to do before the relationship is in crisis, and what makes therapy work.

May 1, 2026 · 6 min read

Birth Trauma

Five signs you may be carrying birth trauma

Birth trauma can hide in plain sight. Here are the patterns I see most often, and what's possible when it gets attention.

April 29, 2026 · 6 min read

Co-Parenting

What to say to your co-parent (and what not to)

Communication scripts and real examples for separated parents trying to get through hard conversations without making it worse.

April 25, 2026 · 8 min read

Postpartum

How to tell your partner you're struggling postpartum

If you don't know how to start the conversation, this is for you. A few specific, kind ways in.

April 23, 2026 · 4 min read

Pregnancy Loss

After a miscarriage: what to expect emotionally in the first month

What the first month after a pregnancy loss actually looks like, why the grief is real, and what helps.

April 18, 2026 · 7 min read

Birth Trauma

5 signs you might be carrying birth trauma without knowing it

Birth trauma can hide in plain sight, especially in women with 'healthy baby' outcomes. The five patterns I see most often, and what to do about them.

April 12, 2026 · 7 min read